Resolution 1: Remember it doesn’t all happen in bed.
No, that doesn’t reference having sex on the dining room table (although as sex tips go, trying new locations is often a good idea). This resolution refers to the need to focus on things beyond the actual sex act. The quality of sex one has is impacted by everything that happens from the moment a date begins. So men need to remember to be charming and engaging with their talk and to be active, interested listeners; to take proper care with their dress and hygiene; to choose activities that their partners will enjoy; and to sincerely take an interest in their partner as a person. All of this can make the moments in each other’s arms that much more explosive.
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Resolution 2: Pay attention in bed.
Nothing is more of a turn-off for a partner than having their man’s focus diverted from them during sex. The truth is that in recent years, our technological advances have made it possible for people to stay virtually connected at all times of the day. Yet there should be times when a man is committed to one person and one person alone. Make a resolution to turn off the cell phone, the computer, the tablet and any other electronic communications while coupling. A man needs to ask himself: Is checking a text about another cute cat video really worth interrupting the path to passion that he has started down?
Resolution 3: Start the day right.
Some studies indicate that sex drives are higher early in the morning than at most other times of the day. Make a commitment to at least occasionally get in some lovemaking before breakfast. This is especially recommended for couples who are in a long-term relationship and who may feel that their sex lives are getting a little stale. In addition, early morning sex tends to relax a person and put them in a better mood for the day ahead.
Resolution 4: Take chances.
This doesn’t mean stop having safe sex – that is FAR too important to consider! But it’s good for a man to resolve to take chances in his sex life. Exactly what that means may vary from man to man. For one man, it may mean letting down his guard and opening up more about his true feelings. For another, it may mean communicating more openly about things he enjoys or doesn’t enjoy when having sex. And for a third, it may mean exploring new sex-based options, such as sex toys, role playing or new positions.